Thursday, September 15, 2011

My Gift

Happy Birthday to ME....!

Today, I celebrate the beautiful milestone of 40 and it feels good.  Today, I own my DIVA believing my soul has a renewed existence and purpose.

Yes, today I turned 40 years old with a smile on my face I say thank you God for blessing me with each and every trial and tribulation that I have gone through and the happiness and comfort that has followed.  Today, I respect the lessons it took to get here and acknowledge the joy that is greater than myself. 

My daughter said something to me without even realizing what she was saying (teaching), she said and I quote "Mama, I only want to do things that will be of a SERVICE to others."  Today my gift is not tangible or has a high dollar price tag or is at the bottom of a wine glass; today my gift is life and all that it has to offer and all that I have to GIVE. 

Thank you to my beautiful, strong, intelligent, couragous, sweet, diva-in-trainging daughter for my gift....(YOU)....Happy Birthday to is good. 

Monday, August 15, 2011

Help Yourself

Welcome to some positive reinforcement, affirmation, whatever you want to call it!  Help yourself to whatever it is you may need; sometimes hearing the right words at the right time is all you need to mark the beginning of change.    

Being BROKEN in the right places
can be the most BEAUTIFUL thing to ever happen ~ Joyce Meyer
My favorite

When you cease to Dream, you
cease to Live ~ Unknown

Instead of focusing on what you are going through,
focus on what you are going to do. ~ Unknown

The purpose of life is to discover your gift. 
The meaning of life is to give your gift away. ~ David Viscott
This makes me smile each time I read it powerful words that make a beautiful point 

The most beautiful thing a woman can ever wear, is confidence.
Another favorite

Don't be a woman that needs a man, be the woman a man needs. ~ Kimora Lee Simmons

Are you willing to give up what you want to receive what you need?

Knowing who you are and not being told who you are
is where your true power lies. ~ Farrah Gray

You only fail when you quit.

Looking back, I have this to regret,
 that too often when I loved, I did not say so ~ David Grayson

People treat you how they see you treat yourself.

In order to succeed, your desire for success
should be greater than your fear of failure. ~  Bill Cosby

I am a child to HIS vision.
Take a minute, if you are not ready for this one read again...

 Nothing will work unless you do. ~ Maya Angelou

Success is getting what you want. 
Happiness is wanting what you get. ~ Dale Carnegie

Men are what their mothers made them. ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

Believe the best of yourself
and everything else will fall into place. ~ Mary J Blige

Live what you LOVE.

NOTE this post is always under construction and will accept words of wisdom....

Saturday, July 23, 2011


Thank You ladies for all you have done and continue to do for me, for that I am grateful...!

Linda (mama) - Foundation
Bridget (sister) - Pathway

Ravaen (daughter) - Future

Tiffany aka Monique (sister in law) - Confidence/Fierce

Niosha (neice) - Individuality/Unique

Barbara Faye (mother in law) - Family
Rest in Peace August 2010

Patricia (sister in law) - Fixed Purpose/Strong Willed
Rest in Peace June 2006  

Sharon - Authentic

Rica (german sista/neighbor) - Endurance

 Karen (neighbor) - Constant

 Kate (co-worker/superhero) - Emotion/Risky

 Deserie (co-worker) - Strong Belief
Carolyn - Leader
Tina - Caretaker
Brenda (auntie) - Faithful
Rhonda (mentor) - Blessing
Monica - Strength
Mary Ann - Intelligent
Laura - Control
Phyllis - Example

Monday, May 17, 2010

I am Everything You Thought I Ought Not Be

I am my mother, who gave me existence; the foundation from which I build this life.
I am my sister's independence; my auntie's hint of gospel.
I am my daughter's strength, my sister-in-law's confidence, and my niece's individuality.
I am my neighbor's kindness and my employer's education.
I am that woman that you look at a second time and wonder what just happened.
I am a force to be reckoned with, but throughly enjoyed.
I am highly favored; yet fearfully and wonderfully made.
I am unknown in my own darkness.
I am a phenomenal woman with an undefined swagger and a spirit that will set you free.
I am a woman like no other........

Phenomenal is what they tell me!

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

What I Know....

Phenomenal Woman by Maya Angelou

Pretty women wonder where my secret lies.
I'm not cute or built to suit a fashion model's size
But when I start to tell them,
They think I'm telling lies.

I say,
It's in the reach of my arms
The span of my hips,
The stride of my step,
The curl of my lips.

I'm a woman
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

I walk into a room
Just as cool as you please,
And to a man,
The fellows stand or
Fall down on their knees.
Then they swarm around me,
A hive of honey bees.

I say,
It's the fire in my eyes,
And the flash of my teeth,
The swing in my waist,
And the joy in my feet.

I'm a woman
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

Men themselves have wondered
What they see in me.
They try so much
But they can't touch
My inner mystery.
When I try to show them
They say they still can't see.

I say,
It's in the arch of my back,
The sun of my smile,
The ride of my breasts,
The grace of my style.

I'm a woman
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

Now you understand
Just why my head's not bowed.
I don't shout or jump about
Or have to talk real loud.
When you see me passing
It ought to make you proud.

I say,
It's in the click of my heels,
The bend of my hair,
the palm of my hand,
The need of my care,
'Cause I'm a woman
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

...from the moment she recognized  my voice, I read her this poem.  From the moment she could speak her first words, I taught her the meaning. By the time she entered pre-school she had it memorized, if you ask my daughter today what or who she is, her response would be phenomenal.  This poem is important to me, because I believe this is what my mom was telling me when she said "don't ever stop loving me, always love who you are" and before anything I am a WOMAN....